This is not something we are equipped to address, but you might find some good help and discussion on our Community Forums. This is a helpful, active, knowledgeable and diverse group of people interested in home schooling. The parents on our boards come from a wide variety of backgrounds.
You can read all you want without registering as a user, and you may find helpful discussions already exist on the General Board or its sub-boards, or in the Chat Board. If you wish to post a question or a response, you will need to register. Your screen name can be an alias, so as to add a layer of anonymity.